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🏆 Win The Week
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The things that made you weird as a kid make you great today.
But when it comes to setting and achieving goals, a week is the perfect amount of time to focus on.
It’s long enough to make significant progress, yet short enough to keep you motivated and on track.
In this issue, we explore the concept of 'winning the week' and how it can lead to exceptional results over time.
Winning the week is about breaking down your larger goals into weekly, manageable objectives.
It's a shift from the overwhelming view of an entire year or quarter to a more focused, 7-day strategy.
This approach allows you to have a clear 'win/loss' record for each week, which cumulatively builds your success over months and years.
At the beginning of each week, ask yourself:
What does winning this week look like?
This could be anything from hitting the gym four times.
Having a date night with your spouse.
Spending quality time with your kids building something.
Or, meeting specific work targets.
Define clear, achievable goals for each area of your life.
Focus on lead measures, specific actions that drive you toward your weekly goals.
Unlike 'lag measures' that track the outcome, lead measures control the behavior that leads to the outcome.
For example, if your goal is to cut back on alcohol, your lead measure could be the number of alcohol-free days per week.
Keep a simple record of your weekly goals and whether you achieved them.
This can be as straightforward as a checklist in a notebook or a Google spreadsheet.
At the end of the week, review your progress.
This record serves as a tangible reminder of your wins and areas needing improvement.
As a Father: Set a goal to engage in a specific activity with your children, like a game night, a trip to the park, or helping with homework.
As a Husband: Commit to uninterrupted quality time, a long walk together, or plan a small surprise for your wife.
In Health and Wellness: Plan your workouts, set a sleep schedule, and decide on your meal plans.
At the Office: Identify key tasks that will drive the most value (i.e., revenue) in your work and focus on completing them.
Not every week will be a win, and that's okay.
The goal is not perfection, but progress.
Analyze what didn’t work and adjust your strategies for the following week.
Resilience is key.
Acknowledge and celebrate your wins, no matter how small.
This is one of the key tenets of Man Morning communities.
Celebrations reinforce positive behaviors.
More than anything, winning the week is a mindset.
It’s about taking control and making intentional, proactive choices in your daily life.
When you stack successful weeks on top of each other, they lead to significant achievements over time.
The journey to long-term success is a series of won weeks.
Define what winning looks like for you this week and get after it.
Avoid getting distracted by shiny objects that aren’t for you.
That’s it for this issue. Forward this to 3 men who would appreciate it.
Make yourself proud,
Antonio Neves, Man Morning Newsletter
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